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2003-01-31 - 12:55 a.m. I just got home from Wendy's house. Boy oh boy. See, she is dating Darren. And has been since like, August of last year. Wendy has always been the type to not think alot. She's blond. Thinking is not something she is good @. But I never knew until tonight exactly how STUPID she really is. So Darren is an EMT. Doesn't make alot of money. He is in his last year of nursing school. Oh & he is 34. She is 22. He has never been married (to my knowledge) & has no kids. Since the first time I met him, I felt weird about him. Like, I get chills & looking @ him makes me ill. Not b.c. he is ugly. Well, he is, but not enough to make me puke all over myself. But b.c. he has this invisable tie to her that she thinks is wonderful. He mails gifts to her house; he took her to Canada for New Years; took her to Flordia for their ONE MONTH ANNIVERSARY; wanted to take her to Austrailia--which he told her about on the way to their first date. I don't know...it's just odd. This isn't jealousy, people. Ohhhhh no. This is me looking after my friend. When I ask her to go out, she laughs @ me. Tells me "No. Darren might get mad." I was over there tonight & he called 6 times in the 3 hours I was there. They want to move to Tampa Bay, FL. And they are serious. Like, serious to the point of making a list of prices on the things they are going to sell in her apartment. And they are "moving" in a year. They want to build a house there. They have most of the house plans drawn out. Including measurments. And stuff torn out of magazines. Like a heated towel rack. She said she is allowed 2 boxes of stuff to bring w/ her. Everything else is getting tossed or sold. They have everything mapped out until his retirement, & she insures me w/ he will a millionare in 10 years. The whole situation is just bizarre to me. I'm all for love & planning & making goals, but shit. Live realistically. She isn't going to work when/if they move b.c. she said "I would just make a better wife if I stayed home & did things around the house." And she isn't going to finish school. I asked. "Why would I want to go to school & get a degree if he will be making 4 thousand a week?" 4 grand a week? Being a nurse? Being a nurse & a drug-pusher maybe. Oh what the fuck ever. I just hate to see someone give up their life for someone else so easily. She's just tossing everything to him & he isn't even trying to push her to better herself. Well, of course not. B.c. he is a control freak & they want someone to totally depend on them. And no...I don't think he is the greatest guy in the world like she does. If he was, why isn't he married? B.c. "he hasn't been attracted to anyone in 10 years & he is so selective when it comes to dating." Doubt it. And she knows I don't believe her. She knows. I hope I am wrong, really, b.c. there should be more guys who were honest & sincere. But there isn't. And he isn't. Not like this. Man oh man. I won't say anything to her. This is her relationship & I will do everything to be supportive of it. I know in my heart though that she is going to be one disappointed chick. Maybe not tomorrow. Or this year. But he isn't that guy she thinks he is. I can f e e l it. **This is them in Canada-2002** Doesn't he just look dishonest?
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